tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post7468675699354906941..comments2023-04-26T01:09:08.907+10:00Comments on Revealing the Real Me: Unseasonally Depressed!Andreahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09531925118553636058noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-80064254389558161392010-12-31T10:07:10.855+10:002010-12-31T10:07:10.855+10:00PS - Just read through your 'long term goals&#...PS - Just read through your 'long term goals' - can you see him fitting in with these?Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08291934899985630757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-49544301182773370852010-12-31T10:04:23.326+10:002010-12-31T10:04:23.326+10:00Hello my darling, I hope you are feeling better......Hello my darling, I hope you are feeling better... my 2c is this: you have been here before, are you just trying to soldier on hoping that things change? If you speak to him and make him realise how serious the situation is, he is either going to change (and lets be honest, you're hardly hoping he will change who he is, just that he brushes his teeth every now and again) or he's not... ultimatum time baby. I know this may sound harsh, but you aren't a quick to judge / harsh person, so to have gotten to this stage, the problems are large... large enough to be causing you issues. <br />At the end of the day, you know what a wonderful person you are and how far you have come on this journey - he needs to realise how dam special you are and that he's lucky to have you... and if not - well... <br />I'm here if you need me, only ever a phone call away! Love you stax and stax.Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08291934899985630757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-5441615106149359402010-12-30T04:25:11.704+10:002010-12-30T04:25:11.704+10:00Andrea, My heart goes out to you today with this ...Andrea, My heart goes out to you today with this post about your feelings. There is some really great advice in the previous comments, and I'm happy to see these awesome women supporting you. <br /><br />Lucy suggests that you talk to him, which I agree is wonderful advice. Tell him everything that you feel; what you need, what you want, and you'll see that when you speak from your heart, the confidence will just flow out of you. Miss Ruby tells you to follow your heart, which is so important! I am a big believer in understanding what it is you want out of life, then having the courage to follow your heart to get there. You already do Andrea! You had the courage to post this today! That was huge!<br /><br />I wish you all the best my friend. I'm thinking of you and, like Andrea said ...... live 2011 to your fullest potential! You will. I know you will. xo, ConnieThis Way to Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04819341991408335823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-56486363979406700102010-12-29T22:03:44.917+10:002010-12-29T22:03:44.917+10:00You say you still love him, are you IN love with h...You say you still love him, are you IN love with him though? The two are vastly different.<br /><br />I think it depends on whether you can see yourself being happy in this relationship at any point in the future?<br /><br />I've seen a few friends go through something similar in the past year, one stayed, the other left, both are happier than they were.<br /><br />Sending you courage to follow your heart, it's rarely wrong...<br /><br />~x~~stinkb0mb~https://www.blogger.com/profile/13933191141338188027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-12447048675745564902010-12-29T15:57:47.305+10:002010-12-29T15:57:47.305+10:00I am tapping this out on my 'phone so apologie...I am tapping this out on my 'phone so apologies if this sounds brisk, but I have walked in you shoes and my gut says you need to tell all this to him: tell him what you need . Then if you are still left wanting; move on. If it all feels too <br />Much like hard work : get out. you are worth more. XxDiminishing Lucyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02072304081006798910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-39878399042955548882010-12-29T15:01:55.415+10:002010-12-29T15:01:55.415+10:00I don't have any answers for you, but I can ma...I don't have any answers for you, but I can make up a cozy little bed in a box if you need a place to think it out. :) xoWanderlusthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099758957492165428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260134084736326991.post-72995727303854132402010-12-29T13:22:18.786+10:002010-12-29T13:22:18.786+10:00haha, my word recognition is flattorso :)
I haven...haha, my word recognition is flattorso :)<br /><br />I haven't read your blog for long enough to know the full history of your marriage, so I just want to say that I'm thinking of you.<br /><br />I left an unhappy marriage last year, and while I go through periods of guilt because he still loves me & would take me back tomorrow, the reality is he's done nothing to change the things that made me leave. And he never will (he's an alcoholic....)<br /><br />I am a much happier person now, and am in a blossoming new relationship that is just.... easy :) And wonderful :) I never thought I would be in a relationship that doesn't just feel like a constant struggle. Yet I am.<br /><br />Good luck with your decision, but whatever it is, make sure you live 2011 to your fullest potential.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12759025084972767295noreply@blogger.com